Remembering Your Needs Can Save Your Relationship!

Forgetting about yourself common and is an important karma marriage and relationship question :

Q:
One thing which I have noticed is that for many years I have been placing a lot of of attention on other peoples needs, and not mine, its has if I have neglected myself! I am ready to put myself first. How?

A:
Your challenge of ‘other people needs’ vs ‘your needs’ is now on your mind and priority because you may not feel accomplished and meeting your potential.

In the past you may have felt that if you just able to satisfy others you would feel complete. You now realized it just does not work. Nor will they value what you do enough. You may recognize that the only way to get their love and approval

The moment you will feel that you are getting your share of growth…you will first experience the changes of energy, which you may be able to notice in your attitude and outlook, you will just be much easier to make decisions, feel less offended by others and more content with yourself, stages of that will be showing themselves, you will still be having ups and downs but you will be more able to let go.

That will express in your actions, choice and results, in that order. Results is what others will have easier time to notice first, those who are closer to you and care more about you, will also notice your patience and attitude change as well. Once you feel that return of positive attention from those around you, it will no longer feel wrong to attend to their needs.

Bottom line attending to your needs actually answers directly to what others really need from you in the first place. They what to be around someone who is growing.

Now you can feel comfortable placing yourself first, knowing that it has a great benefit to others.

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What is your experience with energy and music?

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We will soon be releasing the joined recording of Erik Valdman’s energy work (Bio-Vibes) during a world class classical concert. This Unique music and  energy production was elevating both for the performers, considered by many, to likely be some of the best young stars in the world today and the sold out audience.

The performers:

LUKA OKROSTVORIDZE, piano (born in Tblisi, Georgia in 1991), studied with Professor Dorensky (teacher of Denis Matsuev and Nikolay Lugansky) at the Moscow Conservatory. An accomplished pianist and composer, Luka has won international competitions and festivals, including the Colmar in France. He made his debut through The International Vladimir Spivakov Charity Foundation with Young Stars in 2006, he made his North American solo recital debut here in 2007, winning fans with his charm, and passionate and mature playing. “His intensity is palpable,” observed the National Post.

YURI REVICH, violin (born in Moscow in 1991), has performed with the Russian National conducted by Mikhail Pletnev, the Moscow Soloists under Yuri Bashmet, and other leading orchestras. Yuri has won such international competitions as Virtuosi of the XXI Century and the David Oistrakh in Russia, and the Oldenburg Promenade and International Kloster-Schontal Violin Competition in Germany. In 2008, French master Alan Karbonar presented Yuri with a violin made especially for him. Germany’s Weinheimer Nachrichten (Weinheim News) described how Revich “left the public open-mouthed with the drama, passion and directness of his performance.”


NAREK ARUTYUNYAN, clarinet (born in Gumri, Armenia, 1992) is a regular soloist with the great Russian orchestras, under the likes of Constantine Orbelian, Vladimir Spivakov, and Yuri Bashmet. Narek has also given solo recitals in France, Italy and Switzerland. A winner of many international competitions, Narek is equally gifted in classical and jazz. At his 2008 Toronto debut through the The Vladimir Spivakov International Charity Foundation in Young Stars, Alexa Petrenko of Classical 96.3 FM exclaimed that “this performance stopped time”.

Could you share your experience with energy and music?

What do you feel we should name this DVD/CD production?


Swine Flu (H1N1 virus) Karma Perspective (10 minute video)

Here is the video I promised, it will explain the connection to stress anxiety the immune system and how doing business, and relate to each other, the “Zappos way”, could help us prevent future flu outbreaks and much more…

(if you do not have 10 minutes, just go directly to min 6:43 of this video)

This video will  show you my personal perspective, please share your ideas and impressions below.

I strongly believe, that unless we learn how to do business ( and in every day life, simply relate, communicate with each other) with the clear intentions of creating a benefit for all who are involved in the production, as well as “the prime intention”, long term, best possible, product and experience, for the end consumer (a friend, a fellow human being), we may find ourselves taking short cuts with devastating outcome.

I also believe, that every one is able to do “the right thing”, but first for all of us, the perspectives on life, money and self worth must be “adjusted”.

Understanding the concept of doing the “right thing”, may not be enough, which is the prime reason for Karma and Inner Energy Secrets Training.

Does anyone know where the H1N1 virus came from?

CNN – Pigs are kept in cages, and are not let to be pigs!
Pigs are under constant stress
Pigs are fed with animal byproduct

The flowing video will answer some of these questions:

Could a stressed person also be the first to get any flu?

What can we do to protect ourselves?
What can we do to protect our family?
What can we do to protect our business?

How is the flu related to Karma?

Could we avoid the flu if we were vegetarian?

“Making a Profit” vs “Producing and/or Growing Food”

Could there be a different life perspective?

Understanding Swine Flu’s World Spread: Form A Karma and Inner Energy Perspective

UPDATE: Here is a good link

In his post (Understanding Swine Flu’s World Spread: Questions and Answers) on April 30 (Bloomberg) John Lauerman wrote — Swine flu has sickened at least 257 people in 11 countries, including Mexico, the U.S., New Zealand, Canada and the U.K., according to the World Health Organization.

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the image at: www.koreatimes.co.kr/

During yesterdays Karma Secrets Training, we attempted to answer similar questions but from a karma perspective:

1. What is the source of the “Swine Flu”, why now, and what does it all mean to us?
2. Who is at the greatest risk to be infected?
3. What can you practically do today, to protect yourselves, your family and your friends?

Tomorrow I will send you the links to an article I wrote based on the conclusions and insights we have arrived to (a Karmic and Inner Energy perspective)

But before I do, I wanted to know: How do you feel?
Can we protect ourselves from this upcoming pandemic ?
Do you think there is something we can be doing today to prevent future similar outbreaks?

Please share your opinion with us.
Your thoughts and opinions are important.

Karma and Inner Energy Secrets Replay

If you are following me on twitter, or on my karma secrets mailing list you will be receiving a personal invitation to watch The Replay of my Wednesday, April 22 presentation, which will be airing this Monday April 27 at 2:00pm and 7:30 eastern time. Karma and Inner Energy Secrets five week training.

I was wondering what your definition of Karma is
and how do you feel your Karma is effecting your life?
(please share your views ask a question and comment on your experience here

Inner Energy As The Hidden Component To Your Success – From Personal Growth To Finding Your Life’s Purpose

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During a recent Karma and Inner Energy Secrets presentation at the Total Health Show 2009, there were many question requiring the definition of “Personal Growth” and Success.

Personal Growth could be observed and measured on many different levels.

Where some would place more value on knowledge or education, receiving a formal degree would be defined as personal growth. Others who have a more practical outlook on life consider achieving a higher salary, or position as their ultimate personal growth. There are also those who search for power, and others need respect.

Some view personal growth as a more successful family life, or even a gain in spiritual awareness, or enlightenment.

Inevitably we would view ”Personal Growth” based on our, and our sphere of influences, current life perspectives.

However you define personal growth, you will soon realize that to achieve personal growth on any level, you would ultimately require “Inner Energy”.

Inner Energy, as it has been described in many ancient, eastern and western traditions, has always preceded any form of action.

Here Inner Energy becoming the necessary component to support our emotional strength and self confidence, to create a clear vision of our desired outcome, to give a true physical strength and the necessary inspiration to take immediate action.

Inner Energy as the hidden component to our success, has the ability to do more than just empower but also redefine our personal growth from the inside out.

Ultimately reflecting Success, Personal Growth could be defined as the steps you take towards your True Life’s Purpose.

As you are experiencing inner growth, your path, your purpose may include greater and greater elements of helping others through inspiration.

Helping through Giving and Helping through Inspiring could have some what of a different meaning. Helping through Giving is giving away from what you have, at times it is very difficult and limiting, as you may feel that you do not have enough to give.

Helping others through inspiring, could expressed a much more true and powerful gift. Inspiring others, giving them power is unselfish and unlimited. Inspiration which comes from the very essence of who you are, regardless of how much physical possessions you have. Inspiring and not giving becomes more rewording as one person has the ability to inspire an entire nation.

To be an inspiration, you need not change anything about you.

The opposite is true, it is the very uniqueness and individuality of who you currently are, rich or poor, tall or short, young or old, walking or on a wheel chair, inner energy at your disposal, guided by your intention you need not change a thing, but use your individuality and personal power. You, as you are, can begin making immediate difference in your life and in the lives of others.

Karma & Inner Energy Secrets April 22, 2009

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Join us Live on Wednesday, April 22,  2009 7:30- 9:30 p.m. (Eastern, Toronto Time)

I will be presenting Karma & Inner Energy Secrets Live from Toronto, Canada.  If you are in the Toronto Area you can be in the audience (although seating is very limited) but, for the very first time Karma Secrets Training will be Live On The Web.

Karma Secrets preview on Wednesday April 22, and the Karma and Inner Energy Secrets Five Week Training , will be available Live and in Replay to registered students world wide.

Meditative StoryTelling for Parents & Children at Total Health Show 09 in Toronto

total health 09 Meditative StoryTelling for Parents & Children at Total Health Show 09 in TorontoAnother Year! Another Spring! I will be doing Karma Diagnosis at my booth (The Art of BIM #506) Just got the schedule I will be presenting at Total Health Show in Toronto, Saturday, April 18th, 2009, North Stage 2:00-3:00pm, “Meditative Story Telling for Children”  Sunday, April 19th, 2009 2:00-3:00 “Karma & Inner Energy Secrets”

Join me Live in Toronto, or watch on a Live Webcast, Wednesday, April 22, 2009 and experience Inner Energy Secrets. More details are coming soon!

Inspired by The Beatles Fundraiser in Radio City April 4th 2009 Is For Kids…

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I just had a conversation with a long time acquaintance who is working at an INDIGO (the largest bookstore chain in Canada) and according to him the tough economic situation has not heart the book business a bit, but quite the opposite. Actually he is working in the children books section of the store. This section has just been more than quadrupled in size. Parents are buying more books for their kids. And despite technology the sales of books in general is seemed to be rising in these tough economic times.

Well, this brought me back, way back to eastern Europe, were I was born. Now an independent (still communist ) country, Belarus, at the time, was under the umbrella of the Soviet Union…all I can say is that during touch economic times which was “all the times” in those days, Education, books, classical music and sports, where at the highest respect and priority for all people, and more so for parents and their children.

It may not be such a coincidence, that exactly that same change in perspective on education has recently triggered a big interest from schools and parents to teach meditation to children. It has been proven that meditation helps both adults and children to alleviate stress, gain better focus and much more…

Inspired by the Beatles Fundraiser in Radio City on April 4th. Paul McCartney and Ringo Starr will reunite to the stage to raise money to teach meditation to children around the world. They are going to point it towards one million at –risk children – giving them life long tools.

We are very exited and honored to hold this parallel event at a Campus of one of Canada’s Larges Montessori Schools, Westney Campus, 20 O’Brien Court from 2:00 – 4:00 p.m. Toronto time (Eastern).

Hundreds of Blaisdale of students teachers and their parents are invited, thousands more are expected to participate on the live stream, over the Internet directly from their home from around the world. Most of the Elementary teachers accompanied by their own families will be in attendance.

We hope you will be there too.

You can now watch the Intro Video and register at http://www.meditativestorytelling.com/